{"id":1671,"date":"2021-11-29T13:27:26","date_gmt":"2021-11-29T12:27:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/uncategorized\/outside-in-perspectives-on-parkinsons-research-from-an-impatient-patient-blunt-businessman\/"},"modified":"2026-04-04T08:41:39","modified_gmt":"2026-04-04T06:41:39","slug":"outside-in-perspectives-on-parkinsons-research-from-an-impatient-patient-blunt-businessman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/uncategorized\/outside-in-perspectives-on-parkinsons-research-from-an-impatient-patient-blunt-businessman\/","title":{"rendered":"Outside-in perspectives on Parkinson\u2019s Research from an Impatient Patient &#038; Blunt Businessman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Drawing on their experience as business consultants and personal development coaches, Patrick &amp; Anne-Marie Demoucelle make a blunt, threefold appeal to Parkinson\u2019s disease researchers; meeting patients, adopting business practices, and nurturing positivity, could make them even more effective in their important work &#8212; and satisfied in their lives.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>When Patrick was diagnosed with Parkinson\u2019s disease (PD) on his 40th birthday, he received mountains of information about what PD is, its symptoms, and its impact. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Of the countless \u2018facts\u2019 he was presented with, two statements were especially striking. In fact, they were two conflicting statements. From his doctors, first: \u201cYou still should have ten-to twelve (good?) years ahead of you.\u201d From researchers, later: \u201cIn ten years there should be a cure\u2026\u201d Which made us wonder: \u201cIn ten years, would he be nearing death or be nearly cured?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>We are now 16 years on from his diagnosis, during which time we founded the <a href=\"\/fr\/?page_id=396\">L'association Demoucelle Parkinson<\/a> to raise funds for Parkinson\u2019s research, and time has proven both statements to be wrong. Patrick is far from dead, yet far from cured. When Patrick is \u201con\u201d he wants to shout at the doctors: \u201cI am still alive and kicking!\u201d. When he is \u201coff\u201d, he wants to shout at the researchers: \u201cWhere is that f*****g cure?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Because, quite honestly, what we most want is a cure. As quickly as possible. Because after 16 years with Parkinson\u2019s, life is tough. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/brussels-20k.jpg\" alt=\"- Demoucelle Parkinson Charity\" width=\"241\" height=\"160\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.demoucelle.com\/blog\/charity-post\/advice\/attachment\/brussels-20k\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-12385 noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Patrick is a \u2018fighter\u2019. During this September\u2019s Brussels 20km, he finished in 2 hours 4 minutes, having managed to run for 13.5 km and been pushed in a stroller by a team of friends for the rest. He makes a conscious effort to live life to the fullest. But he\u2019s had to give up so many things that previously brought him joy, such as traveling and attending dinner parties with friends. And even the most ordinary things, like eating and going to the bathroom, have become a real struggle. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>So yes, we are desperate for a cure. Quality research is our only hope. We need you! And we have three ideas drawn from our careers as business consultants and personal development coaches, that we would love you to consider. We think these might make you even more effective in your job (and satisfied in your lives).<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>\u00a0<\/span><span>The three ideas are: (1) Meet patients, (2) Embrace business practices, (3) Nurture positivity.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span>Meet patients<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/lab-visit-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"- Demoucelle Parkinson Charity\" width=\"245\" height=\"184\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.demoucelle.com\/blog\/charity-post\/advice\/attachment\/lab-visit\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-12391 noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>As part of our work with the Demoucelle Parkinson Charity, we often visit PD research centers. While there, we make a point of asking \u201cHow frequently are you in contact with PD patients?\u201d (polite phrasing) or \u201cHave you met someone with PD?\u201d (direct phrasing). The answer is almost always disappointingly negative. Most researchers say that Patrick is the first PD patient they have met.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>How come? Too busy with research? No need? No access? No interest?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Come on, let\u2019s change that right now! How can you work \u2018for\u2019 someone you have never met? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Get into the habit of meeting and finding out about who it is that, ultimately, you are working for i.e. \u00a0PD patients! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>They are the true customers of your PD research project not your bosses, the science magazines, the medical community, the big pharma, or whomever else will purchase the output of your research. The end-consumer is the one who will put the pill into her mouth or have the vaccine injected into his upper arm. Your end-user is the PD patient.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>You know, whenever we visit research teams, they tell us how inspiring it is to meet an actual, real, live patient. They say it gives them a motivational boost. It provides such a sense of purpose. Don\u2019t deprive yourself of the opportunity to feel (even) better about your work. To feel that all those hours, days, weeks, months, even years are worth it. (And, patients will be happy \u2013 even relieved \u2013 to know that you are even <em>more<\/em> motivated to do what it takes to help find that cure.)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>So, go visit some patients, don\u2019t invite them. Observe them closely, don\u2019t look away. Show interest in their struggle by asking questions rather than providing answers. Don\u2019t talk \u2018science\u2019, talk \u2018human\u2019. Identify what they need, not what <em>you<\/em> think they need. Learn from them, don\u2019t lecture them. And give them hope (but we\u2019ll come to that in our third message).<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span><u>Next step<\/u><\/span><span>: Ask yourself: <em>\u201cWho do I know that is a PD patient and who I could go to see?\u201d<\/em> Then give him\/her a call and set up a visit!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span>Embrace business practices<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>We are incredibly impressed by the work researchers are doing. We certainly couldn\u2019t do it, that we know! But, based on our long experience in the corporate world, we feel that many research teams are not yet working at their fullest potential. In our humble opinion, this is simply because they have not (we\u2019d prefer to think \u201cnot yet\u201d) embraced the \u2018top performance\u2019 practices that so many companies have adopted. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/facilitating-e1637790600734.jpg\" alt=\"- Demoucelle Parkinson Charity\" width=\"285\" height=\"158\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.demoucelle.com\/blog\/charity-post\/advice\/attachment\/facilitating\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-12394 noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Research is like business in many ways. Both need seed capital (equity or debt) to start-up and then to finance growth. Both are confronted with budgets, cash-flows, and difficult investments decisions. Both have specific cultures. Both require management and leadership skills. Both have a risk of failure. But above all: both involve people and teams. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>And that\u2019s where we see a big difference: corporate teams realize that communication, trust, teamwork, cooperation, learning, training, tooling, motivation, rewards, are all aspects of getting the job done that require active management. We\u2019re not sure research teams pay the same attention to these elements, or to put it mildly, give them the same importance.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>\u00a0<\/span><span>Which skills developed in business could be brought into research? We can think of many:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span>Developing a <strong>long-term vision<\/strong> and contrasting it with the current reality (including people issues \u2026 especially people issues)<\/span><\/li><li><span><strong>Aligning <\/strong><\/span><span>the team: getting everyone pointing in the same direction; defining clear operating principles (i.e. how to work together, and how to decide together);<\/span><\/li><li><span>Developing <strong>soft skills<\/strong> (leadership skills, presentation, and influencing skills, communication skills, feedback skills, facilitation skills, \u2026) <\/span><\/li><li><span>Embedding solid <strong>HR processes<\/strong> (recruitment and onboarding, evaluation, promotion, comp &amp; ben, \u2026) <\/span><\/li><li><span><strong>Coaching<\/strong><\/span><span> and mentoring: for most people there\u2019s so much more <em>in<\/em> them than what they currently use<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Whenever we work with teams (research teams or others) on the topics above, they report back that doing so has helped to take them to the next level. Don\u2019t deprive <em>yourselves<\/em> of the opportunity to perform even better as a team. (And, patients will be happy \u2013 even relieved &#8211; that you are even <em>more<\/em> effective in helping to find that cure.)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>So, get into the habit of asking advice from people who know how to deal with the organizational and behavioral challenges you face in your team, especially business leaders and managers. Invite them, don\u2019t visit them. Let them observe you, don\u2019t hide away. Give them a role to play. Reveal your struggles, your weaknesses, and your scars. Ask them many questions and let them provide some answers. Don\u2019t talk \u2018science\u2019 talk \u2018business\u2019. Learn from them, don\u2019t lecture them. And praise them, congratulate them, be grateful (but we\u2019ll come to that in our third message).<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span><u>Next step<\/u><\/span><span>: ask yourself: <em>\u201cWho is an experienced businessperson I could go to and get advice from? Which skills development training or executive education program should I attend?\u201d<\/em> Book it now!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span>Nurture positivity<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/resilience-1.jpg\" alt=\"- Demoucelle Parkinson Charity\" width=\"215\" height=\"267\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.demoucelle.com\/blog\/charity-post\/advice\/attachment\/resilience\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-12400 noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Our third and final message is our very own belief in positivity.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>When Patrick was diagnosed with Parkinson\u2019s, it was a serious setback. There was a lot to digest. We didn\u2019t want this diagnosis to be \u2018the end\u2019. We wanted to continue having a \u2018real life\u2019. So, we started searching for answers. Answers that would allow us to have a fulfilling life \u2013 a life \u2018worth living\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>What we found is that a positive mindset was key, whatever the circumstances. Ruminating, feeling sorry for ourselves, doubting ourselves, and thinking how unfair it was that this had happened to us, can help for a few minutes, but not longer than that. However, realizing that there were so many things we <em>could<\/em> be grateful for, believing that \u2018life happens <em>for<\/em> us, not <em>to<\/em> us\u2019, and making a conscious effort to consider \u201cwhat can we do right now to create the life we want\u201d have helped us do and achieve some incredible things over these last 16 years. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>We appreciate full well that we\u2019re not the only ones encountering setbacks. As a researcher, you encounter a lot of setbacks. It\u2019s part of the job. And just as receiving a diagnosis with PD is confronting, so too are the setbacks you encounter. That\u2019s why we wanted to share some practices that help us to stay positive \u2013 perhaps they can help you too:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>When something goes wrong: <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span><strong>Don\u2019t make it out to be worse than it is<\/strong><\/span><span>. Don\u2019t make it out to be better either. Just see the situation as it is \u2013 with its positives and negatives. Often, doing this alone will already make things easier \u2026<\/span><\/li><li><span><strong>View the situation in a bigger context.<\/strong><\/span><span> Something might be going wrong \u2013 but there are probably many other things that are going right. Acknowledge and appreciate what is going well. Doing so will give you positive energy. <\/span><\/li><li><span><strong>Realize that things are happening <em>for<\/em> you, not <em>to<\/em> <\/strong><\/span><span>Whatever happens, there is always something good that can come out of it. Look for that silver lining. Make sure you leverage the hidden opportunity and come out \u2018bigger\u2019 than before. The idea that something positive can come out of it, will inspire renewed hope\u2026<\/span><\/li><li><span>But to start with<strong> \u2013<\/strong> <strong>surround yourself with positivity<\/strong>. Read positive books. Listen to positive news. Hang out with positive people. Banish the \u2018negative people\u2019 from your life \u2013 or help them develop their positivity. Marvel at the beauty of life. Identify or create your three micro-moments of happiness every single day.<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Positief-681x1024.jpg\" alt=\"- Demoucelle Parkinson Charity\" width=\"147\" height=\"221\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.demoucelle.com\/blog\/charity-post\/advice\/attachment\/positief\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-12397 noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Positivity will make you happier and more successful.<br\/>\n<\/span><span>Positivity is a choice. Make it! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>\u00a0<\/span><span>So, visit positive people, don\u2019t invite them. Observe them closely, don\u2019t hide away. Find out what they think (their convictions) and what they do (their habits). Show interest in their life experience by asking questions not by providing answers. Don\u2019t talk \u2018science\u2019, talk \u2018real life\u2019. Identify what you actually need, not what you think you need. Learn from them, don\u2019t lecture them. Feel their positive energy, and start feeling positive yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span><u>Next step<\/u><\/span><span>: Ask yourself: \u201cWho is a positive person I could go and visit?\u201d Now give him\/her a call!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>***<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>These are our three outside-in messages to you, the talented researchers: (1) Meet patients, (2) Adopt business practices, (3) Nurture positivity. It won\u2019t be easy every day. But there\u2019s one thing we can guarantee you: it is worth it!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>Thank you for everything you do to fight Parkinson\u2019s. We need you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">Picture 1: Patrick &amp; Anne-Marie at the start of the 20k of Brussels<br\/>\nPicture 2: Anne-Marie visiting a Parkinson\u2019s research lab in Leuven<br\/>\nPicture 3: Patrick &amp; Anne-Marie animating an offsite for a pharma company working on Parkinson\u2019s<br\/>\nPicture 4: Patrick &amp; Anne-Marie testifying about resilience<br\/>\nPicture 5: the cover of our book Positief (Lannoo in Flemish) and Positif (Racine, in French)<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Patrick and Anne-Marie offer some advice to researchers in the hope of speeding up discovery of a cure.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1672,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1671","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1671","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1671"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1671\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1677,"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1671\/revisions\/1677"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1672"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demoucelle.sites-stag.agency\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}